Meet Ms By-polar

We’re excited to introduce you to the always interesting and insightful Ms By-polar. We hope you’ll enjoy our conversation with Ms below.

firstName}, thank you so much for agreeing to talk with us about a deeply personal and sensitive topic. Postpartum depression affects so many in the community and hearing from someone who has overcome PPD might help someone who is going through it right now. For readers, please note this is not medical advice, we are not doctors, you should always consult professionals for advice and that this is merely one person sharing their story and experience

After welcoming my beautiful baby boy on November 17, 2023, who is now a year old, I’ve come to realize that juggling motherhood and entrepreneurship can be overwhelming, yet it’s also doable. I don’t label my experiences as postpartum; instead, I embrace my feelings and tackle challenges one day at a time. I find it essential to make the most of my time since it is truly precious. I remind myself that everything will be alright, and it’s important to navigate life’s ups and downs and the lessons that come with them. It’s crucial to be kind to myself, to take things easy, and to prioritize self-care, self-love, and inner peace. Remember, peace is wealth, and health is a mindset. Although I still face struggles on particularly overwhelming days, I always pause to relax and reset for the next day. Sometimes, it takes more than a day to regain my balance, and that is completely acceptable. You must also embrace the new version of yourself that emerges after giving birth and take the time to love and care for her; all of this has helped me navigate postpartum. I learned that it’s perfectly fine to cry and not feel okay. Instead of sharing my struggles with others, I began journaling, which brought me a sense of peace. I also distanced myself from anyone—even close family—who doubted me or didn’t share my vision, as this was necessary to keep myself out of that dark place.

Appreciate the insights and wisdom. Before we dig deeper and ask you about the skills that matter and more, maybe you can tell our readers about yourself?

My name is ShonMarra, but I’m also referred to as “Ms BY-POLAR.” As a proud Gemini ♊️, my zodiac sign is prominently featured in my Gemini and Leo logo. I earned a degree in Psychology with a minor in Criminal Justice from Virginia Union University, but I ultimately discovered my true passion for fashion. Although I previously worked as a Registered Behavioral Therapist, I chose to merge all my skills and interests into a single lifestyle brand. I’ve been published multiple times, from the DMV area to Atlanta, and have taken part in fashion shows along the East Coast. I’ve also traveled to Los Angeles for networking events. My brand is easily searchable on Google, where you can find information about my various accomplishments over the years. The fact that my achievements can be found online reinforces that I’m on the right path with my lifestyle brand.

If you had to pick three qualities that are most important to develop, which three would you say matter most?

1.) Trusting the process
2.) Self Care and Self Love
3.) Ambition

You need to fully accept the journey and all that it entails, while also discovering peace within yourself, loving who you are, and growing as an individual. Embrace the person you are becoming, as each new level brings fresh journeys and adventures. Understand that setbacks may occur, but there is strength within you that cannot be taken away, so never give up and continue moving forward.

Alright so to wrap up, who deserves credit for helping you overcome challenges or build some of the essential skills you’ve needed?

My son is the most uplifting and inspiring presence on this beautiful planet. He brings love and laughter and is always right beside me. His smile is unique and can light up anyone’s life. He is my reason and motivation, my personal cheerleader, leading me to victory in my world. He embodies the purest sense of peace.

Contact Info:

• Website: https://www.bypolarbrand.com
• Instagram: _beautifulcreated
• Facebook: BY-POLAR BAR Services
• Twitter: Bypolarb
• Youtube: BY-POLAR Brand

Image Credits

@ra.imagesllc
@iamksnead
@adorebyadair
@mcgraw.smoov