Meet Nikkeii Chevelle

 

We were lucky to catch up with Nikkeii Chevelle recently and have shared our conversation below.

Nikkeii, so great to have you with us and we want to jump right into a really important question. In recent years, it’s become so clear that we’re living through a time where so many folks are lacking self-confidence and self-esteem. So, we’d love to hear about your journey and how you developed your self-confidence and self-esteem.

I developed my self – esteem and confidence from continuing to step outside my comfort zone when it comes to me, myself and I. I have learned to allow myself the space to feel my emotions and work through them instead of compressing them and telling myself that they don’t matter. I give myself grace and check myself when I start negative self talk. I have recognized that sometimes I need to take a break and rest. Giving myself the space to regroup and focus on what’s present keeps me from falling into a depression (thinking about the past) and/or having anxiety (worrying about the future).

Great, so let’s take a few minutes and cover your story. What should folks know about you and what you do?

Queen of Glitz and Glamour,
Nikkeii Chevelle is celebrated for her extravagant fashion finds and her love for all things bold, sexy, and trendy! I grew up in a quaint coastal town in North Carolina with my eight siblings. I’m often seen as the most outgoing and daring among them. People often describe me as having an extraordinary personality and say I’ve won the hearts of many! No room has ever failed to impress me with its charm because you can’t ignore the positive vibes.

My goal is to show the world that being yourself, regardless of your size, is possible and fun, especially when it comes to creating content and enjoying life.

I’ve always had a passion for making things for plus-size individuals, from fashion to organizing events, but I never knew where to begin. Every school project I worked on was related to fashion or events for larger sizes. It wasn’t until 2019, after attending my first plus-size event, that I felt inspired to pursue this further. These events showed me that it’s achievable. Now, I’m on a mission to create a luxurious environment for the plus-size community, a place where everyone feels welcome and valued!

I aimed to build a space where everyone felt included and secure, a place where judgments based on appearance or attire were not tolerated. People are often made to adhere to a narrow definition of beauty, but we are so much more than that.

I launched Therazzledazzleevents.com in the spring of 2022, and since then, I’ve been busy planning and organizing events and spaces.

My next event is my Sneaker and Tutu Ball – October 19th, 2024 in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina.

Looking back, what do you think were the three qualities, skills, or areas of knowledge that were most impactful in your journey? What advice do you have for folks who are early in their journey in terms of how they can best develop or improve on these?

Three key elements that aided me on my path include embracing challenges, practicing self-compassion during recovery, and staying true to oneself. I believe that stepping out of your comfort zone and taking risks can enhance your resilience, integrity, and self-assurance. This is because it allows you to view yourself positively and opens doors for you to interact in unfamiliar situations. For me, when I began sharing videos and photos as a prominent figure in the body positivity movement, my goal was to represent women who resembled me on the internet. I aimed to establish a presence for larger bodies that didn’t conform to the conventional “plus size” model. However, I didn’t always receive the love and respect I hoped for. Despite the challenges, I’m proud to have contributed to the online community by showcasing a diverse representation of bodies like mine. I’m grateful for the opportunity to share my unique viewpoint with others. Practicing self-compassion means being kind to yourself and allowing your emotions to unfold naturally, rather than suppressing them. Why not be your authentic self when it’s simpler and more rewarding to know who you truly are? Invest the time in understanding yourself…it’s definitely worth it!

Awesome, really appreciate you opening up with us today and before we close maybe you can share a book recommendation with us. Has there been a book that’s been impactful in your growth and development?

The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz, which I recently completed, has been read a staggering 46,758 times! One of the agreements that resonated with me is “Do not take anything personally,” an area I’ve found challenging. I’m actively working on this because not everything is directed at me personally, and everyone has their own triggers. It’s unfair to blame others for triggering you if you’re unaware of what sets them off. This book has profoundly influenced my thought process in numerous ways. Each time I delve into it, I discover new insights and lessons that I can apply to my current life situation.

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