We recently connected with Rachel Loren and have shared our conversation below.
Hi Rachel, appreciate you sitting with us today. Maybe we can start with a topic that we care deeply about because it’s something we’ve found really sets folks apart and can make all the difference in whether someone reaches their goals. Self discipline seems to have an outsized impact on how someone’s life plays out and so we’d love to hear about how you developed yours?
Oh, I love this question! My self-discipline comes from the delicate dance between my masculine and feminine energies. It truly is this beautiful interplay that allows me to harness both my creativity and structure. Let me take you through my process.
I always start with my cultivating my feminine energy. The feminine is the realm of creativity, intuition, and nurturing guidance. It’s where I let my imagination run wild— where my inner most dreams take shape and where I allow my intuitive wisdom to lead the way. It’s about embracing the ebbs and flows of my desires and channeling my connection to my inner divine.
I like to start my discipline journey at my inner feminine, because this is space where my intuition shines, and call pretty loudly call out, “This is what’s meant for you!” Or in contract, “This is not your place to thrive. Let’s keep exploring.”
I spend time in creative visualization, allowing myself to daydream and explore possibilities.
The process usually involves me, cozied up in a soft blanket with a cup of herbal tea, closing my eyes and letting my imagination run wild. It’s like creating a mental vision board where I can see my desires unfold without judgement.
Next, I dive a little deeper into my desires through intuitive journaling. This isn’t about writing a to-do list or planning my day to accomplish my goal— it’s only about letting my thoughts flow freely onto the pages. This is super helpful in navigating the landmines of limiting beliefs, or thought patterns that are holding me back. It’s like having a heart-to-heart with myself, uncovering more hidden desires, and figuring out where my heart truly wants to go, in alignment with my larger purpose in live. This is a very intimate process, yet so crucial in the discipline process, because if you don’t know where your destination is, you’ll spend hours driving in circles, to no end. Intuitive journaling not only gives my desires clarity, is deeply fulfilling and empowering but this practice is also very intensional, and makes me even more excited when it comes time to do the actual work!
Once my feminine energy has illuminated areas of my life where I want to see bloom, I call in my masculine energy and this is where the action behind the discipline takes place.
The masculine energy brings logic, structure, and drive into play – it’s all about getting things done. Here’s how I activate it:
I’ll star by setting clear, actionable goals based on my desires. This means breaking down my dreams into tangible steps and setting realistic timelines. It’s about turning those whimsical visions into a solid plan that I can follow.
Creating a structured routine is crucial. I establish routines that not only support my goals without feeling restrictive, but also that are aligned with the person I want to become. I build a plan that is multi-faceted, and about more than just achieving a specific desire, but in tandem, is behaviors of someone who already HAS the desire I’m after. I’m a Virgo rising, so this makes the organized, type A side of me happy. It’s like building a supportive framework where I’m set up to achieve fulfillment in all areas of my life!
Be warned though, that challenges come up – and they always do. And when this happens, I also call upon my masculine side of logic and reasoning to navigate through them. This helps me to stay calm, cool and collected, instead of approaching the obstacle from an emotional place.
I’ve also found that regular accountability and evaluation check-ins are key to sustaining my discipline. I set aside time to use my feminine intuition to reflect on my progress and to see what’s working. During this time is also when I make space for grace and compassion where necessary. No one ever stayed disciplined in ANYTHING by punishing themselves. So give yourself permission to mess up a little! Progress is better than perfection, and starting over, is better than not starting at all! Through the masculine energy, we then can make the necessary adjustments ensure were on track and aligned with our goals.
Now, here’s the magic: the real power of self-discipline comes from consistently balancing these energies.
My feminine side guides me with compassion and creativity, while my masculine side provides the structure and drive to achieve my goals. It’s a dance between intuition and logic, flow and structure, and this balance keeps me aligned and always moving forward.
If you spend more than a minute thinking about something you HAVE to do, chances are you can talk yourself out of doing it, pretty quickly! So the last little secret is to have an accountability partner.
I’m a firm believer that any goal or desire we have, can be achieved much faster, with the right people surrounding us. Human’s are social creatures by nature, and having someone to hold you accountable can accelerate your progress. That’s where working with a coach, like myself, can make a huge difference. A coach provides guidance, support, and accountability, helping you stay disciplined and aligned with your goals. It’s about having someone in your corner, cheering you on and keeping you on track, in case you fall off course.
In our daily lives, most of us naturally lead with either our masculine or feminine energy. Therefore, staying disciplined in this way, can be quite challenging, however, deeply rewarding. There’s a few reasons why this works. The first is that the desire originated from your feminine side, which intuitively knows what is right for you. You don’t have to second guess if your goal is too lofty or just a fleeting emotion. You have the desire to fulfill this goal, not because you have proof that you can do it, but because you don’t need the proof, to feel that it’s already yours! Then, it’s the masculine energy’s structure and goal-oriented focus that provides the determination and drive to stick to a plan. When obstacles arise, the feminine energy is called upon again, to nurture your growth, and ensure you are flexible and compassionate with yourself, preventing burnout. Then finally, it’s your masculine side that gives you the drive to adapt to changing circumstances while staying committed to your goals. This balance creates a sustainable path to discipline that feels aligned and harmonious.
If you need help balancing these energies and staying disciplined, feel free to reach out to me at www.iamdangerouslydivine.com or on instagram at instagram.com/iamdangerouslydivine. As a Feminine Energy and Magnetism coach, I’ve worked with many different types of people from all over the world who’ve all have benefitted from balancing their masculine and feminine energies. I can provide the guidance, support, and accountability you need to achieve your goals with grace, ease, and discipline!
I full-heartedly believe that by honoring both sides of my masculine and feminine energies, I’ve created a disciplined life that’s not just effective but also deeply fulfilling and empowering. And with the right support, you can do the same.
Appreciate the insights and wisdom. Before we dig deeper and ask you about the skills that matter and more, maybe you can tell our readers about yourself?
I’m thrilled to share that I am a Feminine Energy and Magnetism Life Coach.
My passion is helping ambitious women unlock their feminine magnetism, align with their highest selves, and manifest their deepest desires with ease and grace. Through my company, Dangerously Divine, I’ve created a global spiritual community where high-value women come together to learn, grow, and support each other.
What’s most exciting about my work is witnessing the transformations. There’s nothing quite like seeing a woman step into her power, embrace her feminine energy, and start attracting everything she’s ever wanted – from soulmate relationships to incredible career moves, luxurious travel opportunities, and soul-sister friendships. It’s pure magic.
One of the most special aspects of my brand is the blend of spiritual and practical tools I offer. We dive deep into mindset work, energy healing, and intuitive practices like Reiki, meditation, and chakra balancing. But we also incorporate strategic planning, goal setting, and accountability – it’s this holistic approach that truly sets Dangerously Divine apart from other spiritual coaches out there.
And speaking of something new and exciting, I’m thrilled to announce my podcast, Dangerously Divine, available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts and YouTube.
https://www.iamdangerouslydivine.com/podcast
It’s a space where I share insights, stories, and practical tips on everything from feminine energy and magnetism to wealth mindset and spiritual alignment. Each episode is designed to inspire and empower women to step into their divine power and create the life they’ve always dreamed of. The podcast also features incredible guest experts who bring their unique wisdom and experiences to the table. It’s like having a mini-masterclass in your pocket, ready to uplift and guide you whenever you need it.
Additionally, I’m proud to announce that I have some fantastic events and workshops coming up, focusing on deepening your connection to your feminine energy and mastering the art of feminine magnetism. These events are not just educational but also deeply transformational, offering a space for women to connect, share, and grow together.
Most of these events are virtual, and can be found on my Facebook group!
So, whether you’re new to this journey of self-fulfillment or looking to deepen your practice, there’s something for everyone. I’d like to encourage the readers to visit https://www.iamdangerouslydivine.com to sign up for my email list! You’ll get a taste of what it’s like to work with me, but I also have an amazing guidebook on “How to Balance Your Masculine and Feminine Energies.”
If you’ve been hustling hard, experiencing burnout, and not living the life you think you deserve, then it’s likely you’ve been operating in your masculine for far too long. Channeling your feminine energy is easy, fun, and intuitive, but it doesn’t always come naturally at first. And that’s okay. This guidebook is jam-packed with actionable steps that took me from uninspired and unaligned, to a POWERFUL, Divinely Feminine being, who magnetizes all my desires with ease!
And remember, if you need personalized support or guidance, don’t hesitate to reach out. I can also be contacted on Instagram @iamdangerouslydivine! I look forward to connecting with you!
If you had to pick three qualities that are most important to develop, which three would you say matter most?
Reflecting on my journey, there are three key qualities and skills that have been truly transformative: self-awareness, resilience, and the ability to balance masculine and feminine energies. Let me elaborate on each and offer some advice for those just starting out.
Self-Awareness:
Understanding yourself – your strengths, weaknesses, desires, and fears – is foundational. Self-awareness allows you to make aligned decisions and stay true to your authentic self.
Advice: Start by incorporating regular self-reflection practices into your routine. Journaling is a powerful tool for this – write down your thoughts, feelings, and experiences daily. Meditation is another excellent practice that helps you tune into your inner world. The more you understand yourself, the better you can navigate your path.
Resilience:
The journey to unlocking your full potential isn’t always smooth. Resilience is about bouncing back from setbacks, learning from failures, and staying committed to your goals despite challenges.
Advice: Cultivate resilience by embracing a growth mindset. See failures as learning opportunities and not as the end of the road. Surround yourself with supportive people who uplift you and remind you of your strengths. Practices like mindfulness and gratitude can also help you maintain a positive outlook during tough times.
Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies:
This balance is at the heart of my work. The feminine energy is intuitive, creative, and nurturing, while the masculine energy is logical, strategic, and action-oriented. Mastering the interplay between these energies has been crucial for my success.
Advice: Begin by exploring and understanding these energies within yourself. Notice when you’re naturally inclined towards one over the other and practice integrating the opposite energy when needed. For instance, if you’re very action-oriented (masculine), allow yourself time to daydream and explore creativity (feminine). Conversely, if you’re more intuitive and flowy (feminine), work on setting clear goals and creating structures (masculine). Working with a coach can also be incredibly beneficial in achieving this balance.
For those early in their journey, I’d also recommend finding a mentor or coach who can provide guidance, support, and accountability. Navigating this path alone can be challenging, but having someone who has been there before and understands the nuances can make a world of difference.
And if you’re looking for someone to help you balance these energies and cultivate these qualities, I would be honored to walk alongside you! As a coach, I’m here to support you in unlocking your feminine magnetism, aligning with your highest self, and achieving your goals with grace and ease. Together, we can navigate the challenges, celebrate the victories, and create a life that truly reflects your divine power.
Okay, so before we go we always love to ask if you are looking for folks to partner or collaborate with?
Absolutely!
I am gearing up for a few incredible new episodes of the Dangerously Divine podcast, and I’d love to have some readers be a part of it!
As a Feminine Energy & Magnetism Life Coach, my mission is to empower women to tap into their infinite feminine power and elevate their lives. My podcast, Dangerously Divine, provides unfiltered guidance on a variety of topics, including gaining self-confidence, establishing healthy relationships, attracting abundance, mindset reprogramming, feminine magnetism, female empowerment, financial freedom, and so much more.
I’m looking to collaborate with inspiring female founders, coaches, and business owners who have powerful stories or expertise to share. Ideally, I’d love to connect with matchmakers and dating experts, manifestation and mindset coaches, nutrition and diet coaches, feminist authors, somatic healers and movement teachers, finance experts and CPAs, therapists, career coaches, female attorneys, solo travelers, and those with unique experiences like SW, OnlyFans models, retired SB’s, as well as intuitives, hypnotherapists, psychics, and tarot readers.
However, if you have a compelling story and don’t fall into these categories, please don’t hesitate to reach out!
Sharing your expertise or story on Dangerously Divine will allow you to reach a diverse and engaged audience of ambitious women ages 18-45 who are deeply invested in self-improvement and personal growth. Together, we can uncover invaluable advice that will elevate every aspect of their lives.
If you’re interested in collaborating, please shoot me a message at [email protected]. Tell me a bit about yourself and what you’d love to discuss on the podcast. I can’t wait to hear from you and create some magic together!
Contact Info:
- Website: https://www.iamdangerouslydivine.com/
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamdangerouslydivine
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/iamdangerouslydivine
- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@DangerouslyDivine
- Other: https://open.spotify.com/show/5mMi84hnu7tGsvjF132QkH?si=04285d5f276042cd&nd=1&dlsi=049ef42375ea4100
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