Meet Raquel Segura

Alright – so today we’ve got the honor of introducing you to Raquel Segura. We think you’ll enjoy our conversation, we’ve shared it below.

Raquel, we’re thrilled to have you on our platform and we think there is so much folks can learn from you and your story. Something that matters deeply to us is living a life and leading a career filled with purpose and so let’s start by chatting about how you found your purpose.

I discovered my purpose through my pain. What was intended to break me became the catalyst for my healing and the strength I now offer to others who feel they cannot overcome their struggles. I strive to be a genuine example, understanding that life isn’t perfect and that we need real-life role models to inspire us. I am committed to demonstrating that, although we may face significant challenges, we have the power to rise above them.

Thanks for sharing that. So, before we get any further into our conversation, can you tell our readers a bit about yourself and what you’re working on?

My story is one of true resilience. As a woman who has faced profound loss and betrayal, I stand strong despite the challenges I’ve encountered. The loss of my children profoundly shaped who I am today. Additionally, navigating the complexities of my husband having children during our marriage added layers of pain. One child I embraced as my own, forever cherishing her, while the other remains a choice I’ve made for my well-being.

For years, I poured myself into others, often at the expense of my happiness and sanity. The loss of my children created divisions in my home and combined with the pressures of pursuing my education, working, and fulfilling my role as a wife, I faced a complete breakdown in 2018. It was the lowest point of my life. Yet, even in a facility meant for healing, I fought my way back to myself.

Depression has been a persistent presence, a daily battle. However, I serve a God whom I trust implicitly, and He is the reason I am still here. Amid infidelity, anger, and grief, He granted me purpose and reminded me of the power in my words. Performing on stage—whether in a club or a church—has become my refuge, a place where I can help others heal even when I’m hurting myself. It’s an indescribable feeling, one that transcends words.

I once questioned God about the hardships I faced and the role I was meant to play for others. His response was simple yet profound: “What makes you so special that you shouldn’t go through challenges?” This has become a cornerstone of my journey, reminding me that our struggles can lead us to our greatest strengths.

In 2022, I decided to retire from poetry. I had an incredible show and wanted to exit on a high note. I intended to focus on my career, believing this would allow my home and professional life to thrive. However, during my time away, I realized that poetry and performing were not just hobbies; they were integral to my very existence. How can one walk away from what God has purposed for them? How can I choose not to write or perform to save one part of my life while denying another?

This journey is greater than my desires. I am excited to share that I am performing again, but now on my terms. I will participate in events and conferences when I feel spiritually led, rather than out of obligation. In this new chapter, I’ve also changed my poetic name from DaTruth, which I held since 2008, to Raq DaTruth. This transformation reflects my desire for my artistry to align with my authentic self. A poetic brother and friend added my first name to my stage name upon my return, and in that moment, I realized the divine significance of this change. Interestingly, a former friend had given me that name through my Instagram handle long before this pivotal moment, underscoring how everything has come full circle.

Above all, I want to love Raquel more than anything for the first time in my life. This journey is not just about my art; it’s about embracing who I truly am and nurturing the love I have for myself.

If you had to pick three qualities that are most important to develop, which three would you say matter most?

Looking back on my journey, three qualities that have been most impactful are resilience, self-awareness, and the power of expression.

Resilience: My ability to bounce back from adversity has been crucial. Life has presented numerous challenges, from profound loss to personal betrayals, but each experience strengthened my resolve. For those early in their journey, I advise cultivating resilience by embracing setbacks as opportunities for growth. Surround yourself with supportive people, and don’t shy away from seeking help when needed.

Self-Awareness: Understanding who I am and what truly matters to me has guided my decisions. It allowed me to recognize when I was sacrificing my happiness and to pivot toward what fulfills me. I encourage others to engage in self-reflection regularly. Journaling, meditating, or simply taking quiet moments to think can help clarify your values and desires.

The Power of Expression: Art and performance have been vital in my healing and connection with others. They provided me a platform to share my story and help others in their struggles. For those starting, I recommend finding your voice, whether through writing, speaking, or any other form of expression. Don’t be afraid to share your experiences; they may resonate with someone else and foster healing.

Ultimately, embrace your journey with authenticity and courage. Remember that your struggles can become your strengths, and your story has the power to inspire others.

How would you spend the next decade if you somehow knew that it was your last?

I take great pride in my transparency, and even though I had the option to choose another question, this one resonated deeply with me. I am currently facing a significant challenge that will truly define the course of my life moving forward, and I’m not yet ready to talk about it publicly. This situation is not one I take lightly; I recognize that it was determined long before I even acknowledged it. I am leaning on my faith, as well as the strength and resilience I’ve previously mentioned. I firmly believe that God didn’t bring me this far to abandon me. I am praying my way through this journey, trusting that it will lead to a greater purpose.

Contact Info:

• Instagram: RaqDaTruth
• Linkedin: Raquel Segura
• Other: Please add that I am a Veteran and a retired professional women’s football player

Image Credits

Jason Varner Houston Photographer for all pictures that I appear to be on stage.
instagram @jvarner_media