Meet Reba Starbeam

We recently connected with Reba Starbeam and have shared our conversation below.

Hi Reba, really happy you were able to join us today and we’re looking forward to sharing your story and insights with our readers. Let’s start with the heart of it all – purpose. How did you find your purpose?

I had a great childhood with some not so great moments. I was undiagnosed ADHD, autistic spectrum, and May-Thurner’s Syndrome (compression of the iliac vein). I wasn’t a very healthy child. I always felt weak, frail, and tired. I got sick often. Mix that in with being very spiritual and having spiritual gifts that I didn’t know how to use, and I just became “the weird girl” and got bullied quite a bit.

The summer before first grade, a new girl moved in 2 doors down. When school started, she was in my class. She stood up for me a few times and then we became best friends. We told each other everything, and I felt comfortable enough to tell her all the things I saw and were aware of, all my gifts. My first memories are of age 7 months old and they were confirmed as accurate by my father when I was 17 years old. When people talk to me, or I hear conversations, I see the things that they aren’t saying. When I would get bullied or abused, I would see their homelife, and I would understand them because they were only dishing out what they were given. My heart hurt for them and my heart hurt for me. I have always been able to see angels and demons and could see the faces change of those that hurt me and knew when they weren’t themselves. I have always just “known” things, or been able to pick up on the feelings of others. I always had very vivid dreams and have known that past lives were a real thing. I have always been able to hear a situation and give good advice.

My parents, grandparents, my best friend, and my faith pulled me through the dark times.My parents and grandparents always put me into vacation bible school at the local churches during the summer as a child. I wanted so hard to believe that all the pain I had endured was for a higher purpose, and so I searched for answers in the church and Scriptures. By the age of 11, I had read all the various versions of the Bible and had read other religious texts, or if I couldn’t read them I would ask the families that owned them what their religion was about. I remember being curled up in my bed, hard sobbing, and just wishing that the world was a better place. I wanted the world to not be so full of pain and hurting.

At the age of 14, I went up for prayer one morning at church and passed out when I was prayed over. I remember the Pastor’s voice as he prayed over me and as he spoke, I saw a future that I knew was mine. I saw me in a foreign country on a large stage and there were people for as far as the eye could see, and they were so packed in and close together. I knew at that moment that I would help make the world a better place.

I had many more lessons and life experiences to go through first. I grew up and wasn’t the best person. At 38, my spiritual awakening started in October of 2015. I was on the public bus and was in the back crying and praying. I remembered being 11 and crying about just wanting the world to be a better place. I knew that I had to change my life around. My awareness started being drawn to the energy body, stuck emotions, and the chakras. In early 2017, I discovered muscle testing and took a course for that; and in the middle of the 3 month course I went on a weekend trip and learned about the chakras. I had to put myself out there and do healing sessions on other people for my muscle testing in order to get certified. I really enjoyed it, and have continued to see clients. I have taken courses on: muscle testing, multiple chakra and energy body cleansing, angels and the sacred flames, crystals, belief reprogramming and past life healing.

Since starting to do healing sessions, I have felt like I have found my calling. I am a Cosmic Soul-Integration Alchemist helping others transmute their life into something they can be proud of. My focus is on using the Violet Flame and Soul Fragment Recall to ignite the Divine Spark within others and help them reach their full energy potential. By helping them tap into their divine spark and transmuting their past, the healing ripples outwards… slowly making the world a better place.

Let’s take a small detour – maybe you can share a bit about yourself before we dive back into some of the other questions we had for you?

We are all stardust with a Divine Spark that lights up and beams across the Universe. As we heal ourselves, the healing ripples outwards to our children, parents, siblings and friends. With our auras and energy bodies healed, we draw in different interactions. We become the love and compassion we wish to see in the world. As our light expands, the light in the world expands.

During my awakening, I didn’t really identify with the old version of me, including my name, so I went from Rebecca to Reba. During one of my healing sessions around 2018, my healer called me “Reba of the Stars”. The more I thought about creating a business for my energy healing, the more that name popped out. As I have tapped into what exactly my focus is, I have tapped into the aspect of alchemizing and transmuting old energy into new energy and how much clients feel their divine spark ignited. Over the years, I have become “Reba, the Starbeam Alchemist”.
The heavy transmutation part comes from the Violet Flame. It dissipates all heavy, lower vibrational energy and will transmute it into higher energies. The Violet Flame came to me early on in my awakening and really helped me shift the heavy energy from my past. I have sought to use it as my primary healing tool and have adapted energy healing techniques to be imbued with its energy.

With Divine Spark Activation comes integrating lost Soul Fragments. Those are the pieces of you that are left with other people and places. If you find yourself saying things like, “That person will always have a piece of my heart”, then you most likely have missing Soul Fragments. During deep healing it is key to address those missing pieces and heal them and re-integrate them. They hold the codes to lost spiritual gifts and ancestral gifts.

After 9 years of doing 1:1 sessions, I am now creating a course that teaches The Violet Flame to cleanse and clear the energy body. My course is “Spirit Alchemy: Unleashing Your Divine Spark & Energy Potential”. In Spirit Alchemy, you will learn about the 7 main chakras, and 7 other chakras that I have seen be of great value when opening up to your full potential. It includes how to muscle test for healing and how to use a pendulum. Currently it is a 3 month course and is in the beta stages. Students will have lifetime access to the course and to the Starbeam Digital Library of the healings and meditations from the course.

One of my mentors offers a BOGO Buddy sign-up for her courses and after joining with my best friend, I saw great value in offering this as part of my course as well. When I was going through my spiritual awakening and healing my life, I just really wanted someone to share my journey with who understood everything I was talking about. It helps in having accountability.

I also make resin jewelry and healing tools like chakra stones and pendulums. At the end of 2024, I went to a vendor event and met a lady who has created a Spiritual Awakening Community Center called The Lightworker Lounge in Surprise, AZ. I have my jewelry in the shop there and have the opportunity to do healing and meditation sessions there. We also hold monthly vendor events where I do mini healing sessions.The Lightworker Lounge has memberships that include healing and meditation sessions, as well as discounts in the shop.

Lots of new things are happening!

Looking back, what do you think were the three qualities, skills, or areas of knowledge that were most impactful in your journey? What advice do you have for folks who are early in their journey in terms of how they can best develop or improve on these?

I had to have faith that everything would be ok. The healing I do and teach others to do, really heals your timelines. During some of the worst moments, like hard-crying at the age of 11, there was always someone that came and spoke encouraging words to me. When I was doing belief reprogramming and working on emotional mastery with Goddess Nadine, I had a powerful epiphany that the person I always thought was a guardian angel or spirit guide… was actually me… in the moment of timeline healing, going back and having conversations with my Little. The message was always clear: Your pain has purpose and you will help others not hurt. Everything will be ok, even when it doesn’t seem like it is, it will always be ok. Over the last 9 years, I heard a saying, “It will always work out. If it hasn’t worked out, then it is not yet the end.”

Focus only on what you want. Humans get so bogged down with negative ways of thinking and belief systems, and one of the most damaging ones is that the Universe hates you or is conspiring against you. We are ALWAYS manifesting, it just depends on if it is consciously or subconsciously. The Universe is benevolent and wants to give you everything. It deals in quantity over quality and doesn’t know positive from negative, it only sees how much you think about something. If we are trying to set intentions or heal aspects of our life, we are given referential experiences that will lead you to what is still holding you back. If you are trying to manifest a good relationship and yet you keep getting into relationships that have a particular pattern or you are thinking certain thoughts, those are the things that need to be addressed in order to manifest the good relationship. There is a natural cycle of the moon for manifesting where you set the intent on the new moon and then the full moon brings to light what still needs to be healed. So if we are unconsciously manifesting, this natural cycle still kicks in. It is why the full moon gets a bad wrap for “bringing out the crazy”. See what needs to be healed, heal it, and stay focused on the outcome that you want.

Change is the only constant. C.H.A.N.G.E. is Circumstances Having A Natural Growth Exchange. When you set out to heal your life… it is not pretty in the beginning stages. Everything that is not in alignment with your higher intention has to fall away. If your relationships or job or living situation are full of people crossing your boundaries or making you feel insignificant, as you heal, those things have to change. A lot of people lose faith in their healing at this stage. If you are buying a new couch, you have to get rid of the couch first to make room for the new couch, even if it means going without a couch for a bit. If you are trying to manifest a healthy relationship and that person doesn’t have a soul contract to vibrate higher with you, they will fall away. The element of the heart chakra is Air. Air blows away all that does not serve your highest good. You have to remember that with Air, comes the new seeds that have been blown in from other places. Everything has a time and a season. Sometimes that season lasts 1 day, 1 week, 1 month, 1 year, or 10 years. Everything changes. If you are choosing to be better and to grow, remember that with growth comes being uncomfortable and moving outside of your comfort zone.

As we end our chat, is there a book you can leave people with that’s been meaningful to you and your development?

There are really 2 books that have played an important role in my life: The Code of the Extraordinary Mind by Vishen Lakhiani and Feelings Buried Alive Never Die by Karol K. Truman.

The Code of the Extraordinary Mind really helped me start to change my belief system. Our beliefs run the show for everything. It looks at 10 areas of your life and helps you look at each area to work through limiting beliefs. It is a good read with lots of referential experiences while being an in depth workbook. I have read the book 4 or 5 times over the last 9 years. Reprogramming our belief system is key in healing.

Feelings Buried Alive Never Die comes as a book and as a reference guide. It works on stuck emotions, feelings, thoughts, and beliefs that are within our energetics. If you have never worked with stuck emotions, getting both books is important. If you work with stuck emotions and have a glimmer of how healing works, getting the reference guide is great. The reference guide is a little book on a ring. It has a script to remove the old thoughts, feelings, and beliefs and input the good. The first part is a list of emotions and feelings in alphabetical order with 4 positive emotions. The second half of the book has a list of common illnesses and diseases of the body that are created by stuck thoughts, feelings, and beliefs. This book has always been accurate and I use it in most healing sessions.

The combination of these 2 books have really helped my journey and work well together.

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