We caught up with the brilliant and insightful Renee Cunningham a few weeks ago and have shared our conversation below.
Hi Renee, we’re so appreciative of you taking the time to share your nuggets of wisdom with our community. One of the topics we think is most important for folks looking to level up their lives is building up their self-confidence and self-esteem. Can you share how you developed your confidence?
I call it Nurturing Confidence, it is in all of us, but you must be surrounded by Mentors and Sheroes to enhance your light.
In the journey of life, the development of confidence and self-esteem often intertwines with the influence of mentors and role models. For me, this process has been a culmination of guidance from remarkable individuals who have illuminated the path with their wisdom and examples of resilience. From the nurturing embrace of my grandmothers to the empowering guidance of my career mentor, each encounter has contributed to the blossoming of my inner strength and self-assurance.
My journey began with the formidable presence of my grandmothers, Mrs. Channie Winters and Mrs. Janie Townes. These extraordinary women embodied qualities of strength, hospitality, and unwavering kindness. Their lessons transcended mere words; they taught me the essence of love and generosity, showing me how to embrace others with warmth and compassion. Through their actions, I learned the importance of spreading kindness and walking through life with an open heart.
As I navigated through different stages of life, my aunts became instrumental in shaping my confidence. They epitomized the art of commanding space with a blend of wit and intelligence. Watching them effortlessly captivate a room instilled in me the belief that assertiveness coupled with intellect is a powerful combination. Their guidance taught me to embrace my uniqueness and to walk confidently in any setting, unapologetically owning my space.
The influence of my mother and godmother further fortified my sense of self-worth. They exemplified the importance of speaking with clarity and conviction, ensuring that my voice was heard and respected in any conversation. Their encouragement to stand firm in my beliefs and express myself boldly instilled in me the confidence to navigate through life’s challenges with grace and poise.
Moreover, my career mentor played a pivotal role in shaping my professional demeanor and interpersonal skills. Through their mentorship, I learned the significance of building meaningful relationships and fostering genuine connections. Their guidance taught me to value authenticity and integrity in all my interactions, laying the foundation for lasting relationships built on trust and mutual respect.
Collectively, these experiences have nurtured the seed of confidence and self-esteem within me, allowing it to flourish into a beacon of self-assurance. Through the invaluable lessons imparted by my mentors and sheroes, I have learned to stand firmly in my own light, embracing my strengths and celebrating my uniqueness. Their guidance continues to inspire me to strive for excellence, to embrace challenges with resilience, and to always walk through life with confidence and grace.
Thanks, so before we move on maybe you can share a bit more about yourself?
I would consider myself a constant optimist, a glass full and overflowing with glitter type of woman. That blinding light shining through in the middle of a harbor of dreamlessness giving Other permission to stand boldly in their own light as well
With a multifaceted career spanning over two decades, I’ve cemented myself as a luminary in the realms of finance, entrepreneurship, coaching, and motivational speaking.
My journey began in the banking and finance industry, where I honed my skills over 25 years. Through roles in life insurance, credit, and sales leadership, I cultivated a deep understanding of financial literacy and business acumen. My success in these fields afforded me opportunities to train and consult with leaders across various industries, including esteemed organizations like Google, Bank of America, and Michigan First Credit Union.
In addition to my corporate achievements, I am a passionate advocate for personal development and leadership empowerment. As the founder of The Polished Experience, I offer a transformative platform for emerging leaders to discover their unique value propositions and amplify their impact on the world. Through personalized coaching and mentorship programs, I help clients unlock their full potential, guiding them to navigate challenges and seize opportunities with confidence and clarity.
My commitment to uplifting others extends beyond individual coaching sessions. I am also a prolific author, with my collaborative work “Ignite the Hunger in You” reaching international best-seller status. My forthcoming book, scheduled for release in early 2025, promises to further inspire and empower readers on their journey to personal and professional fulfillment.
As a sought-after speaker, I captivate audiences with my natural charisma and unwavering passion for transformation. Whether appearing on radio, television, or stages around the world, my message resonates deeply, igniting the flames of ambition and resilience in all who hear me speak.
In my role as a coach with MECCA (Minority Entrepreneurship Collaborative Center for Advancement) at Harris-Stowe University, I continue to pay it forward by nurturing aspiring entrepreneurs and equipping them with the tools and guidance needed to succeed in today’s competitive landscape. My dedication to fostering diversity and inclusion within the entrepreneurial community underscores my commitment to creating opportunities for all.
Beyond my professional endeavors, I find joy in travel, home decor, and spending quality time with my family. Married to my high school sweetheart for over 25 years and blessed with two sons, I exemplify the balance between personal fulfillment and professional success.
With my unwavering dedication to helping others shine brightly, I stand as a beacon of hope and empowerment, guiding individuals to unlock their fullest potential and embrace their journey toward greatness.
If you had to pick three qualities that are most important to develop, which three would you say matter most?
Reflecting on my journey, I’d say three qualities that have been most impactful are:
Continuous Learning and Adaptability: In the rapidly evolving landscape of information and technology, being open to learning new things and adapting to change has been crucial. Whether it’s acquiring new skills, staying updated with current trends, or adapting to unexpected circumstances, a mindset of continuous learning has been indispensable.
Perseverance and Never Give UP: Challenges and setbacks are inevitable in any journey. The ability to bounce back from failures, setbacks, or disappointments, and to persist in the face of adversity, has been instrumental. Cultivating resilience and perseverance has allowed me to stay focused on my goals despite obstacles along the way.
Effective Communication and Collaboration: Success often relies on effective communication and collaboration with others. Whether it’s conveying ideas clearly, actively listening to others, or working collaboratively towards common goals, strong communication and interpersonal skills have been invaluable. Building meaningful relationships and networks has opened doors to opportunities and provided support during challenging times.
Based on these qualities, my advice for those early in their journey would be:
Embrace a Growth Mindset: Be open to learning and view challenges as opportunities for growth rather than obstacles. Seek out new experiences, take on challenges outside your comfort zone, and continuously seek to improve yourself.
Cultivate A Thick Skin and Will Do Attitude: Understand that setbacks and failures are part of the journey. Instead of dwelling on them, focus on what you can learn from them and how you can bounce back stronger. Develop coping mechanisms, practice self-care, and surround yourself with supportive people who uplift you during tough times.
Build Strong Relationships: Invest in building genuine connections with others who share your values and goals. Foster relationships based on trust, mutual respect, and support. These relationships can provide guidance, encouragement, and opportunities for collaboration that can propel you forward in your journey.
Remember, every journey is unique, and it’s okay to make mistakes or change course along the way. Stay true to your core values, believe in yourself, and keep moving forward with determination and purpose.
Before we go, maybe you can tell us a bit about your parents and what you feel was the most impactful thing they did for you?
My parents, Mr. Willie Winters and Mrs. Shirley Winters have imparted invaluable wisdom and values to me, centered around faith, discernment, love, dedication, and loyalty. These lessons are indeed foundational and can deeply impact one’s journey in life. Here’s how they incorporate and build upon these teachings:
Faith and Discernment: Continue to cultivate my relationship with my faith and trust in your discernment. Prayer and listening to your inner guidance can provide clarity and direction in decision-making. Remembering to lean on my spiritual beliefs during challenging times, trusting that all things will ultimately work out for my good.
Love and Relationships: Embrace the example set by unwavering love and commitment. Strive to embody these qualities in my own relationships, whether it’s with family, friends, or romantic partners. Foster deep connections built on love, respect, and mutual support, and prioritize maintaining these relationships over time.
Dedication and Loyalty: I have learned from their dedication and loyalty demonstrated. Commit yourself wholeheartedly to your endeavors, whether it’s my career, personal goals, or relationships. Staying loyal to my values and principles, even when faced with challenges or temptations to compromise.
Passing on Wisdom: Pay it forward by sharing the wisdom I’ve gained from my parents from Mr. and Mrs. Winters with others. I will be a source of guidance, support, and inspiration to those around me, especially younger generations who may benefit from your insights and experiences.
By incorporating these teachings into my life and interactions with others, I honor and love them for their impactful legacy while also continuing to grow and thrive on my own journey.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://www.thereneexperience.com/
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