We caught up with the brilliant and insightful Sean Hemeon a few weeks ago and have shared our conversation below.
Sean, we’re thrilled to have you sharing your thoughts and lessons with our community. So, for folks who are at a stage in their life or career where they are trying to be more resilient, can you share where you get your resilience from?
I think my resilience comes from having lived through extremes—addiction, recovery, loss, and reinvention—and realizing that even in the darkest times, there’s still a thread pulling me forward. When I was younger, I learned to adapt quickly just to survive. Later, in sobriety, I discovered resilience isn’t just about survival, it’s about transformation—turning pain into art, storytelling, and connection.
Resilience, for me, is equal parts grit and grace. Grit in the sense that I’ve had to push through situations that could have broken me. Grace in the sense that I’ve come to rely on something bigger than myself—spirituality, community, love—to carry me when I can’t do it alone. That combination is what allows me to keep showing up, keep creating, and keep believing in what’s possible, even when the odds look impossible.
Appreciate the insights and wisdom. Before we dig deeper and ask you about the skills that matter and more, maybe you can tell our readers about yourself?
I am an abstract expressionist painter, a published author and screenwriter with a forthcoming memoir, and an actor whose work has included the CW series Husbands and, more recently, Ryan Murphy’s ABC show 9-1-1.
My paintings are emotional landscapes, driven less by form than by what’s churning underneath — memory, grief, ecstasy, survival. I paint as a way of telling the truth. The work is visceral, gestural, sometimes explosive, sometimes spare, but always reaching for something beyond the surface. That urgency has carried me across the country and abroad, with shows in cities from Los Angeles to Berlin.
As a writer, my forthcoming memoir The Good Little Drug Lord tells the story of how I was forced to become a federal informant at the height of my addiction. It’s a book about betrayal and survival, yes, but more deeply it’s about the long road toward forgiveness — of others, and of myself.
And as an actor, I’ve been fortunate to work on projects that range from ground-breaking queer representation to mainstream network dramas. Acting gave me my first language for presence; painting gave me a way to wrestle with what words can’t hold; writing gave me the courage to speak plainly. Together they form one practice: storytelling — the attempt to shape chaos into meaning, to turn private experience into something that sparks recognition in another. At its best, that’s what art does. It reminds us that even in our most fractured moments, we’re bound to each other.
There is so much advice out there about all the different skills and qualities folks need to develop in order to succeed in today’s highly competitive environment and often it can feel overwhelming. So, if we had to break it down to just the three that matter most, which three skills or qualities would you focus on?
Looking back, the three things that shaped me most were:
Resilience. Not the glossy kind, but the day-to-day, get-back-up kind. Life knocked me down more times than I can count, and what mattered wasn’t that I stood tall — it was that I stood up at all. My advice: let yourself fail, let yourself fall apart, but practice the art of getting back up. That muscle is built in repetition.
Presence. As an actor, painter, and writer, presence is everything. It’s learning how to stay in your body when your mind wants to run, how to really listen — to a scene partner, to the canvas, to yourself. For anyone starting out, I’d say: slow down, breathe, pay attention. Presence is the root of every creative act.
Honesty. The work that has landed deepest for me — whether on stage, on canvas, or on the page — came when I stopped performing what I thought people wanted and started telling the truth. Even when it was messy. Especially when it was messy. My advice: don’t waste time polishing yourself into something acceptable. Go for the raw, the cracked, the unguarded — that’s where the power lives.
Okay, so before we go we always love to ask if you are looking for folks to partner or collaborate with?
Yes — collaboration is where I come alive. Acting and storytelling have always been collaborative at their core, and I try to bring that same spirit into my painting and writing.
Right now I’m looking to collaborate with:
Galleries and curators, as well as other artists who want to put together a group show.
Guest artists to feature on my website for limited print runs and special editions.
Conventions and events looking for speakers on recovery, creativity, and transformation.
Writers and producers interested in developing scripts, short films, or even plays.
Actors and filmmakers who want to roll up their sleeves and make something raw, intimate, and alive together.
I’m wide open to ideas — a play, a short, a workshop, a hybrid project that doesn’t fit in a box. For me, art is about presence and connection, and the best way to get there is together. Let’s play.
Find me through my website: www.seanhemeon.com
Contact Info:
- Website: https://www.seanhemeon.com
- Instagram: @sean_hemeon
Image Credits
Rory Lewis Photography for THREE of the portrait images
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