We were lucky to catch up with Sophinie Kim recently and have shared our conversation below.
Alright, so we’re so thrilled to have Sophinie with us today – welcome and maybe we can jump right into it with a question about one of your qualities that we most admire. How did you develop your work ethic? Where do you think you get it from?
I get my work ethic from my mother. She survived the Cambodian genocide, came to this country with no money, and raised three kids while working tirelessly to provide for us — she did it all with grace and grit. Watching her hustle showed me that resilience and determination aren’t optional; it taught me that consistency and effort matter more than the circumstances you’re given. So with everything in my life, whether it’s work or being the best mom and wife for my family, I carry that same quiet strength and drive she lived out every day.
Appreciate the insights and wisdom. Before we dig deeper and ask you about the skills that matter and more, maybe you can tell our readers about yourself?
I’m a golf micro-influencer, a proud wife and mom, and a woman in the process of rediscovering herself. My Instagram page, @badandbogey.golf, started as a creative outlet for my golf journey, but it’s grown into a space that reflects who I am: a little sporty, a little stylish, a lot honest — and always real.
What makes my content special is its mix of humor, heart, and relatability. Some days, I’m sharing a new golf look or skit. Other days, I’m talking about motherhood — the chaos, the beauty, the identity shifts — or just laughing at life’s everyday messiness. It’s golf, fashion, family, and everything in between.
Right now, I’m focused on building a community that feels like a safe, fun, and inspiring place — especially for women who are learning to hold space for both their passions and their responsibilities. I want people to come to my page and feel like they belong — whether they’re seasoned golfers, new moms, or just looking for something real to connect with.
I’m also working on expanding my brand into golf apparel and collaborations that reflect the same energy — fun, stylish, and unapologetically authentic. At the end of the day, I’m just a woman trying to show that you can chase your dreams, love your family, and still make time to laugh — even if it’s at your own triple bogey.
There is so much advice out there about all the different skills and qualities folks need to develop in order to succeed in today’s highly competitive environment and often it can feel overwhelming. So, if we had to break it down to just the three that matter most, which three skills or qualities would you focus on?
Looking back, I’d say the three qualities that made the biggest impact on my journey have been authenticity, intentional practice, and remembering to have fun — especially when things feel hard or overwhelming.
First, being authentic to who you are is everything. Whether it’s in content creation, motherhood, or golf, people connect with you — not some polished version you think they want. The moment I stopped trying to fit into a certain mold and just showed up as myself, everything felt more aligned. That’s when I started building real connections with others who saw themselves in my story.
Second, practicing with intention is a game-changer — literally. In golf, that means more than just hitting balls at the range until your hands hurt. It’s taking the club that gives you the most trouble and hitting 100 purposeful shots with it. And it’s resisting the urge to binge-watch YouTube tutorials every time you feel stuck — because growth comes from doing, not just watching. The same applies to building anything — it’s not about doing more, it’s about doing the right things with focus and purpose.
Lastly, don’t forget to have fun and give yourself grace. We all started somewhere — even the people who make it look easy now. The journey doesn’t have to be perfect to be meaningful. Laugh at the bad shots, celebrate the small wins, and remind yourself that progress is still progress, no matter how slow it feels.
If you’re just starting your journey, my biggest advice is this: be patient, be present, and don’t let perfection stop you from starting. You’ll learn so much along the way — and you’re already more capable than you think.
Alright, so before we go we want to ask you to take a moment to reflect and share what you think you would do if you somehow knew you only had a decade of life left?
If I knew I only had a decade left, I would spend it fully present — with my family, traveling, golfing, and soaking up every moment of connection and adventure. I’d document the lessons I’ve learned, the wisdom I’ve gained, and the memories we’ve made — not to post online, but to create something lasting for the people I love. A kind of time capsule they could open after I’m gone, to see how I chose to celebrate my final decade with intention, joy, and gratitude.
I’d also want to use that time to make a meaningful impact — especially for women and children. That could mean starting a nonprofit, mentoring young kids, or creating spaces where they feel seen, supported, and inspired. I’d want to build something bigger than myself — something that makes a difference in people’s lives.
Ten years isn’t long, but if I could fill them with love, purpose, and legacy — that would be more than enough.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://www.badandbogey.com
- Instagram: https://instagram.com/badandbogey.golf
Image Credits
@golflinx and @rusticgolf_provisions
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