Meet Toni Pitruzzello

We’re excited to introduce you to the always interesting and insightful Toni Pitruzzello. We hope you’ll enjoy our conversation with Toni below.

Toni, we’re thrilled to have you on our platform and we think there is so much folks can learn from you and your story. Something that matters deeply to us is living a life and leading a career filled with purpose and so let’s start by chatting about how you found your purpose.

As many of us experience, our society, community & family develop expectations for us – our place in their world, shaped by their rules. I showed signs early in life of being a “rule breaker” or an “outlaw”… a “rebel”… the rules and expectations, the implicit pressure to conform didn’t feel right.

As I entered the workforce, I tried on many different roles and archetypes including those of Insurance Agent, and Fitness Instructor… and I met a man who would end up being my biggest curse and toughest blessing. Moving through a career as an owner of an Insurance Agency was tough. People don’t believe in Insurance because Insurance companies give themselves a bad rep. It was very uptight and my body was FULL of tension. At the same time, I was in my young 20’s, I’d become a mom of two and I was in an abusive marriage. Luckily, I had the rebellious spirit I needed, and the support of my family to get out of the relationship, which led me down a path of self discovery….

I was so young when I entered my marriage, and I hadn’t planned on being a mother… I had been shaped and molded by this man, into someone I didn’t know, someone I felt I never chose to be. I wanted to burst out of my own skin. That’s when I found meditation and when I dove into my love for astrology. With the stillness of meditation, I began to gain clarity and patience, self acceptance and calm. With astrology, I gained deeper awareness of my shadows, wounds and patterns, and an understanding of how to shift them and create a reality of MY choice. I was freer than I’d ever been. I was myself again, and also reborn anew.

This internal shift showed in my outer world, and people noticed. My community began to seek me out for advice and guidance. I found my skills as a Fitness Instructor – a motivator, a coach, a leader – translated off the stage. I began to realize many people around me deal with similar issues of constraint or conformity which doesn’t fit who they truly desire to be, and that many don’t know that there are other options for life. Or if they know there are other options, the fear associated with going against the grain, or shifting from the “normal”/”comfortable” holds us all back from what we want. So, I followed that inclination! Followed my intuition, followed the flow of the path that was I was “co-creating” with the Universe.

I am extremely fortunate to be surrounded by incredible people – women especially. Through interacting with my community, and through deep internal excavation and “construction” (which is still is and will always be underway), I found my purpose. My purpose is to guide people toward their truth. Their truest expression, their purest authenticity, their untapped power, their natural entitlement to freedom.

Thanks for sharing that. So, before we get any further into our conversation, can you tell our readers a bit about yourself and what you’re working on?

At House of Fates, I guide clients on a custom empowerment odyssey, utilizing my skills as a Reiki Master Teacher, and Clinical Hypnotist. While I offer both of these services separately, I also developed a unique modality, HypnoReiki. It blends the healing power of Reiki, which clears, cleanses and enhances one’s energy, with the profound depth of hypnosis, where we collaborate to re-write limiting subconscious patterns. It’s truly a one-of-a-kind experience for those seeking to enhance their lives, comprehensively aligning one’s thoughts, behaviors, and energy with their life’s goals or desired outcomes. This combination allows me to support clients in unlocking their full potential by addressing both the energy body and subconscious mind.

Through Reiki, Hypnosis & HypnoReiki, I help people heal from trauma, reduce anxiety, and build unwavering self-trust. These methods empower individuals to make lasting changes and tap into their innate strengths, leading to a more fulfilled, aligned life.

Whether you’re looking to improve your sleep, attract aligned clients, achieve greater self-confidence, or simply find more clarity and peace, House of Fates provides a holistic approach that addresses both the spiritual and practical aspects of personal growth. I also offer Group Hypnosis programs, and one-on-one sessions tailored to individual needs, ensuring that my clients receive personalized guidance on their journey to empowerment.

As for what’s new, my unique programs continue to evolve. New group programs launch every few months – our next program, HYPNOSIS FOR UNWAVERING SELF TRUST launches in October. I host monthly, in-person events like Reiki Sound Baths, which blend sound healing with the restorative energy of Reiki, enhancing the community’s well-being. House of Fates is not just a business, it’s a space for deep transformation and personal empowerment.

There is so much advice out there about all the different skills and qualities folks need to develop in order to succeed in today’s highly competitive environment and often it can feel overwhelming. So, if we had to break it down to just the three that matter most, which three skills or qualities would you focus on?

First, the willingness to see yourself and your life objectively is crucial. This means observing ourselves without judgment to see the truth of our situation. It’s about cultivating self-awareness and understanding where we are, without the stories or biases that can cloud our view.

Second, embracing a healthy dose of “I don’t give a f*ck energy** is essential. This mindset allows us to overcome the fear of starting something new or learning something different. It frees us from the weight of others’ expectations and helps us move forward with courage and confidence, even when faced with uncertainty.

Lastly, making time for practicing presence and stillness has been transformative. In a world full of distractions and noise, taking the time to be still and present allows you to connect with your inner self and gain clarity on your path.

For those early in their journey, my advice is to start by being honest with yourself, let go of the fear of others’ opinions, and prioritize moments of stillness. These practices will help you build the foundation for growth and success. Engage in Shadow Work to uncover your block and limitations, then bust through them any way you can.

Okay, so before we go we always love to ask if you are looking for folks to partner or collaborate with?

I am ALWAYS looking to connect and collaborate! I collaborate best with people who resonate with the energy of empowerment, healing, and transformation. Those who share a deep commitment to helping others unlock their fullest potential—whether you’re a fellow healer, creative, wellness practitioner, or an entrepreneur who believes in making a meaningful impact. Heart-centered leaders. Ideal collaborators bring a blend of authenticity, creativity, and a willingness to explore new possibilities without fear of stepping into the unknown.

Those passionate about fostering growth, healing, and alignment in others, and you value intuitive, holistic approaches might be a perfect fit. I’m interested in working with those who want to create transformative experiences, whether through events, programs, or other innovative ideas!

Connect with me via my website, Instagram or email!

Contact Info:

• Website: https://houseoffates.co
• Instagram: @tonipitruzzello & @houseoffateshypnoreiki
• Other: Email: [email protected]

Image Credits

Katie Hargrave & Daniel Tyack