We were lucky to catch up with Twan McGary recently and have shared our conversation below.
Hi Twan , we’re so appreciative of you taking the time to share your nuggets of wisdom with our community. One of the topics we think is most important for folks looking to level up their lives is building up their self-confidence and self-esteem. Can you share how you developed your confidence?
As a black transman I had to surround myself with supportive friends , family and community who understands & empathize with my experiences . I educated myself about others that share and had similar experiences .
I embrace and accepted my identity.
I make sure that I prioritize self care and engage in activities that promote such . Im able to challenge and reframe from any negative thoughts or narratives that undermine my self -esteem .
Thanks for sharing that. So, before we get any further into our conversation, can you tell our readers a bit about yourself and what you’re working on?
I am a fearless and passionate transman who is making waves in the advocacy space . As an emerging leader , I strive to create visibility for transmen and make sure their voices are heard . With years of experience as a trans intervention specialist and case manager, for Abounding Prosperity I have assisted countless individuals in navigating the complex world of healthcare , employment & legal systems. I have also started advocating in the streets of Dallas Tx . “Talks with Twan” is a groundbreaking educational initiative dedicated to shedding light on the presence of Black Transmen in society. Through insightful street interviews , this initiative aims to inform, educated , and connect individuals with essential support.
Looking back, what do you think were the three qualities, skills, or areas of knowledge that were most impactful in your journey? What advice do you have for folks who are early in their journey in terms of how they can best develop or improve on these?
The three most important qualities and skills and areas of knowledge that were most impactful on this journey is resilience the ability to adapt & bounce back from setbacks Communication effective communication skills helped facilitate better relationships, enhance & created opportunities for collaboration and growth
Continuous learning and adaptability, being opening to learn . Acquiring new skills and adapting to new situations is crucial
What’s been one of your main areas of growth this year?
My biggest area of growth in the past 12 months is self acceptance developing a stronger sense of self identity. Advocacy and activism becoming more confident in advocating for trans rights and actively participating in raising awareness or creating a positive in the trans community.
Mental health and well being. .. improving emotional resilience and finding effective coping mechanisms and seeking therapy
Contact Info:
- Instagram: Twan_Shakur
- Facebook: Twan McGary
- Youtube: TalkswithTwan
- Other: TikTok ThaMcGarys
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ge Credits
I won the 2023 Emerging Leader award at the BTAC conference . I facilitated panels at the Teen Pride 2023 event
