Meet Vestoria Simmons

We caught up with the brilliant and insightful Vestoria Simmons a few weeks ago and have shared our conversation below.

Hi Vestoria, thank you so much for opening up with us about some important, but sometimes personal topics. One that really matters to us is overcoming Imposter Syndrome because we’ve seen how so many people are held back in life because of this and so we’d really appreciate hearing about how you overcame Imposter Syndrome.

How I Overcame Imposter Syndrome
Oh, honey, imposter syndrome is REAL! It’s that little voice in your head that whispers, “Who are you to do this? You’re not good enough, smart enough, experienced enough…” And let’s be honest, it can be a total confidence killer.
When I first started Beautynblingxoxo, imposter syndrome hit me hard. I had this vision of creating a brand that would empower people to embrace their unique beauty and shine brightly, but I constantly doubted myself. I felt like I didn’t have the “right” background, the “right” connections, or the “right” experience.
But here’s the thing: I realized that imposter syndrome is often just a fear of failure disguised as a lack of confidence. So, I decided to flip the script and focus on my strengths and passions. I reminded myself why I started Beautynblingxoxo in the first place – to create a community that celebrates individuality and empowers everyone to express themselves authentically.
I also surrounded myself with a supportive network of friends, family, and mentors who believed in me and my vision. Their encouragement and guidance helped me to silence that inner critic and embrace my own unique path.
And you know what? The more I focused on my passion and purpose, the less imposter syndrome held me back. I realized that it’s okay to not have all the answers, to make mistakes, and to learn along the way.
Overcoming imposter syndrome is an ongoing journey, but it’s a journey worth taking. When you believe in yourself and your vision, you can achieve anything you set your mind to. So, keep shining bright, glow-getters! ✨

Appreciate the insights and wisdom. Before we dig deeper and ask you about the skills that matter and more, maybe you can tell our readers about yourself?

About Me & beautynblingxoxo
Hey there, Voyage KC readers! I’m Vestoria, the founder and CEO of BeautynBlingxoxo, a brand that’s all about empowering you to embrace your unique beauty and shine brightly. ✨
My journey started with a simple belief: that everyone deserves to feel confident and radiant in their own skin. I’ve always been passionate about beauty and wellness, and I wanted to create a brand that not only offered high-quality products but also fostered a sense of community and self-love.
At BeautynBlingxoxo, we’re not just about makeup and skincare; we’re about creating a holistic approach to beauty that nourishes your body, mind, and soul. We believe that true beauty comes from within, and our products are designed to enhance your natural radiance and help you express your unique personality.
What’s most exciting about BeautynBlingxoxo is the incredible community we’re building. It’s a space where everyone feels welcome, supported, and empowered to be their authentic selves. We’re all about spreading positivity, self-love, and those “glow-up” vibes!
What’s New with BeautynBlingxoxo
We’re always working on exciting new things at BeautynBlingxoxo, and I can’t wait to share what we have in store for 2025!
New Product Launches: We’re thrilled to be launching our “Nourish and Glow” healthy snack mix and the “Bling It On” eyeshadow palette soon! These products are designed to complement your beauty routine from the inside out and help you create stunning looks that reflect your unique style.
Expansion into Retail: We’re also exploring exciting retail partnerships to make our products more accessible to glow-getters everywhere. Stay tuned for updates on where you can find BeautynBlingxoxo in stores!
Community Events: We’re planning some fun and interactive community events, both online and in person, to connect with our amazing supporters and spread the message of self-love and confidence.
I’m so grateful for the opportunity to share my story and the BeautynBlingxoxo vision with the Voyage KC community. Thank you for your support, and remember to always shine bright! ✨

If you had to pick three qualities that are most important to develop, which three would you say matter most?

Three Qualities That Shaped My Journey:
Resilience: The entrepreneurial rollercoaster is full of ups and downs. Building resilience – the ability to bounce back from setbacks and keep going – has been essential. It’s about embracing challenges as opportunities for growth and never giving up on your vision.
Creativity: In a world saturated with brands and products, creativity is key to standing out. It’s about thinking outside the box, coming up with innovative ideas, and finding unique ways to connect with your audience.
Community Building: Building a strong and supportive community has been the foundation of BeautynBlingxoxo’s success. It’s about creating a space where people feel welcome, valued, and empowered to be their authentic selves.
Advice for Those Early in Their Journey:
Cultivate Resilience: Practice mindfulness, gratitude, and self-care to build your inner strength and resilience. Embrace challenges as opportunities for learning and growth, and don’t be afraid to ask for help when you need it.
Unleash Your Creativity: Don’t be afraid to experiment, take risks, and think outside the box. Find inspiration in unexpected places, and let your unique personality shine through in your work.
Foster Community: Connect with your audience on a genuine level, create a space where they feel valued and heard, and foster a sense of belonging. Remember, a strong community can be your biggest asset.
Bonus Tip: Never stop learning and growing! The entrepreneurial journey is a constant evolution, so stay curious, seek out new knowledge, and surround yourself with people who inspire you.
I hope this advice helps those who are just starting their entrepreneurial journey. Remember, you have the power to create something amazing! ✨

What do you do when you feel overwhelmed? Any advice or strategies?

Feeling overwhelmed is definitely part of the entrepreneurial package, isn’t it? It’s like trying to juggle a million sparkly balls while riding a unicycle on a tightrope. Okay, maybe not that extreme, but you get the idea! 😉
Here are a few things I do when I’m feeling overwhelmed, and some advice that might help you too:
1. Hit Pause
Sometimes, the best thing you can do is just stop. Step away from the chaos, even if it’s just for a few minutes. Take some deep breaths, close your eyes, and give yourself permission to just be.
2. Prioritize and Delegate
When your to-do list is a mile long, it’s time to prioritize. Identify the most important tasks and focus on those first. And don’t be afraid to delegate! If there are things you can hand off to someone else, do it.
3. Break It Down
Big goals can feel overwhelming. Break them down into smaller, more manageable steps. This makes them seem less daunting and helps you celebrate those mini-wins along the way.
4. Mindfulness is Your BFF
Mindfulness practices like meditation or journaling can help you calm your mind and gain perspective. They can also help you identify the root causes of your overwhelm and develop strategies to address them.
5. Self-Care, Always
Never underestimate the power of self-care! When you’re feeling overwhelmed, it’s more important than ever to prioritize things that make you feel good, whether it’s a relaxing bath, a walk in nature, or spending time with loved ones.
6. Remember Your Why
When things get tough, remember why you started your entrepreneurial journey in the first place. Reconnect with your passion and purpose, and let that fuel your motivation to keep going.
7. Ask for Help
Don’t be afraid to reach out to your support network for help. Talk to a friend, mentor, or fellow entrepreneur. Sometimes just sharing your struggles can make a world of difference.
Bonus Tip: Remember that it’s okay to not be okay. Entrepreneurship is a rollercoaster, and it’s normal to feel overwhelmed sometimes. Give yourself grace, take things one step at a time, and celebrate your wins along the way. ✨

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