We caught up with the brilliant and insightful Zainab D Mansary a few weeks ago and have shared our conversation below.
Hi Zainab D, appreciate you sitting with us today. Maybe we can start with a topic that we care deeply about because it’s something we’ve found really sets folks apart and can make all the difference in whether someone reaches their goals. Self discipline seems to have an outsized impact on how someone’s life plays out and so we’d love to hear about how you developed yours?
Self-discipline is something I owe greatly to my parents, my culture, and especially my mother. As an African, I was raised within a strict routine that emphasized the importance of consistency in achieving tasks. This included morning rituals like waking up early, washing dishes, making breakfast, cleaning the house, and taking showers. In our culture, the discipline of organization starts at a young age, with the expectation that all tasks should be completed by eight o’clock in the morning. This is important because we often have surprise visitors, such as family or friends. While the discipline enforced during my childhood felt tough and severe, I did not realize its true value until I reached adulthood. It became clear to me how essential self-discipline is when managing myself in the workplace or as a parent to my own children. Personally, my experience growing up was not as difficult as that of my siblings or peers from other families, as I naturally gravitated towards maintaining discipline. This experience helped me understand myself better and appreciate the purpose of being disciplined, as well as how to structure my achievements both personally and professionally. ” For example, when I had my first child at 25 years old while also managing my first retail store, my mother reminded me of an important tip. She said, “Now that you have your baby, don’t forget your morning routine before the baby wakes up.” This meant I needed to get up before 5 AM to be ready for the day, which included showering and taking care of my makeup and personal grooming. This was not a challenge for me; it just required waking up an hour earlier than my usual routine.” ”Self-discipline is essential for a successful life, regardless of whether you are poor, middle class, or wealthy, and whether you have a job or not. Consistent self-discipline will help you stay aligned with your goals and open the door to opportunities and luck.” Zainab Djiwo Mansary
Appreciate the insights and wisdom. Before we dig deeper and ask you about the skills that matter and more, maybe you can tell our readers about yourself?
In 2025, I will embark on an exciting journey with the Small Business Development Center of Los Angeles through my company, Chains Mothers Corporation. I am continuing my pursuit of entrepreneurship and humanitarian efforts, specifically by launching a clothing line that advocates for mothers and children facing difficult circumstances. I hope to share more details by December, so stay tuned!
If you had to pick three qualities that are most important to develop, which three would you say matter most?
Vision, communication, and self-discipline are essential components for achieving success. Your vision allows you to shape the path you want to pursue. Communication is crucial for conveying your vision effectively and ensuring it takes the form you desire. It’s important to let your surroundings understand your language, so you aren’t misunderstood or hurtful in your interactions. Self-discipline is vital for gaining respect and understanding as a leader. If you want your colleagues or loved ones to follow in your footsteps and achieve harmonious success together, you must embody self-discipline in your actions.
Before we go, maybe you can tell us a bit about your parents and what you feel was the most impactful thing they did for you?
The empowered and resilient woman I am today is a result of my parents’ guidance. They shared with me powerful sources and the keys to a successful life and personal development. Through the tough challenges of life, I have learned to be aware of my wrongdoings, as well as my strengths, regardless of whether I believed I was on the right side. I have accepted defeat with tears and sadness, and I have learned to find my strength during those difficult times. ” life is not about me, myself, and I but with those our path is set” Zainab D Mansary
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