Meet Jacquelin Finnicum

We’re excited to introduce you to the always interesting and insightful Jacquelin Finnicum. We hope you’ll enjoy our conversation with Jacquelin below.

Jacquelin, so great to have you with us and we want to jump right into a really important question. In recent years, it’s become so clear that we’re living through a time where so many folks are lacking self-confidence and self-esteem. So, we’d love to hear about your journey and how you developed your self-confidence and self-esteem.
I believe that self confidence and self esteem is something that we build within ourselves by knowing ourselves intimately. Having a strong sense of self is a key element for both self confidence and self esteem. Understanding that one’s worth is nonnegotiable, that each human is born 100% worthy and their individual infinite intrinsic value is defined only within their own mind.
Everything a person believes about themselves with be reflected in his or her self confidence and self esteem.

Thanks, so before we move on maybe you can share a bit more about yourself?
I am Jacquelin Finnicum, I am a Certified Life Coach. My passion in life is helping others transform their life and their relationships.
I believe that every relationship only exists in our own minds, our thoughts about other people define our relationship with them. I teach the tools that lead to transformation of Any relationship in your life, I have used these tools to transform every area of my life, and you can too.
Right now one of the area’s of coaching that I am most excited about is helping moms of adult children evolve from mommy mode of parenting little kids into mentors with wisdom to share with their adult children.
I am now launching the mini coaching ebook Evolving Moms Into Mentors.

There is so much advice out there about all the different skills and qualities folks need to develop in order to succeed in today’s highly competitive environment and often it can feel overwhelming. So, if we had to break it down to just the three that matter most, which three skills or qualities would you focus on?
The number 1 thing that I believe was the most important for me at the beginning of my own evolution was hiring an excellent certified life coach who helped me change my mindset and understand that my thoughts were the root cause of all of my own suffering.

2. Examining my own stories that I was believing about myself and my life, was some of the deepest work I did and continue to do for myself.

3. Learning absolute self responsibility vs blaming my external circumstances and environment as the source of my stress, and emotional experience of my own life.

My advice for others is to question everything they know, and decide what they actually think and believe for themselves, because everything we know is just the opinion of others, rules, ideas, teachings, all made up by those who have come before us.

What has been your biggest area of growth or improvement in the past 12 months?
My own biggest area of growth and improvement has been allowing myself to stop the hustle bro culture and lean completely into my own feminine energy of creativity, intuition, emotional intelligence, vulnerability and resiliency.

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