We were lucky to catch up with LaTonya MeChelle recently and have shared our conversation below.
LaTonya, so great to have you with us and we want to jump right into a really important question. In recent years, it’s become so clear that we’re living through a time where so many folks are lacking self-confidence and self-esteem. So, we’d love to hear about your journey and how you developed your self-confidence and self-esteem.
My confidence and self-esteem! Most that know me now would have no idea that I just learned to look in a mirror for a long period of time a few years ago. Before then, I didn’t smile and if I did, it was fake. I was married to a man who woke up daily to tell me that I would never amount to much. It was easy for him to punch me in the face or kick me in the eye while wearing combat boots. It took a stranger to tap me on my shoulder to tell me to wake up and to show me what I was missing in life. His comment was like, how are you existing and not even aware of your surroundings. When you don’t like or love yourself, that’s very easy. When you’re just going through the motions of life, it’s become your daily way of life.
Fortunately, I woke up and begin to see my value. I learned it was okay to tell someone that vowed to love you to kiss your tail. Even if it meant walking away and giving up everything. Unfortunately, it wasn’t as easy as it sound. What made it worth while was my son who I know I had to break a curse in order for him to have a good life. I developed my confidence and self esteem cause I experience for so long the life without it and decided, I never want to live that way again and I haven’t looked back since. It feels so good to smile and mean it and for others to see it and know it comes from within.”
Appreciate the insights and wisdom. Before we dig deeper and ask you about the skills that matter and more, maybe you can tell our readers about yourself?
I am a multifaceted individual. Through my brand, the LaTonya MeChelle Experience, I am able to provide quality service to my diverse range of clients. As a Love Coach, Media Personality, Speaker, Image/Brand Manager, and the editor of two magazines, I also assist veterans in obtaining their VA Disabilities. I’m currently most excited about two areas in my business. Firstly, the release of my magazine, LoveChology, where we discuss topics such as love, various relationships, singlehood, and great s*x. Secondly, I am passionate about the lives we are changing through my VA Disability assistance services. This month alone, we have received several 100% ratings, which is the ultimate goal. Every day brings a new challenge, but the work is always rewarding. No matter which services, our aim is always to make a positive impact and improve the lives of others.”
There is so much advice out there about all the different skills and qualities folks need to develop in order to succeed in today’s highly competitive environment and often it can feel overwhelming. So, if we had to break it down to just the three that matter most, which three skills or qualities would you focus on?
My top skill or quality is definitely my people skills. I truly believe I can communicate effectively with people from any background – no matter their race, gender, religion, or anything else. It’s not just about talking at people; it’s about having a real conversation and truly listening. One-sided conversations just don’t cut it. People need to feel that you genuinely care about what they have to say.
Next up, let’s talk about respect. I strongly believe that everyone deserves respect, even those who may not show it themselves. I never let myself stoop to a level where I’d disrespect someone else. Doing so would be a violation of my own character, not theirs. I’ve even mastered the art of giving someone a piece of my mind while still showing respect – they wouldn’t even see it coming. You don’t have to see eye to eye with someone, but respecting them should always be non-negotiable.
And finally, staying true to yourself is key to speaking your mind freely. When you’re genuine with yourself, there’s no desire to cause harm or mistreat others. This authenticity allows for open, honest communication without any hidden agendas.
How would you describe your ideal client?
My ideal client! Since The LaTonya MeChelle Experience offers various services, our doors are wide open to many. I’m looking for couples who want to add spice to their relationships and rekindle not just their love for each other, but also their liking for each other. Oh yeah, those who want to spice up their boring s*x lives too. Singles or individuals who are struggling to cultivate self-love are also welcome. It’s time for the change you’ve been longing for. I promise you that my coaching will elevate all aspects of your life.
I’m looking for those who are seeking a RAW guest speaker that will leave your audience wanting to love themselves more and do better. My topics vary and frequently address issues that are often swept under the rug to maintain peace. I’m also seeking people who want the red carpet experience at their next event or need a host for their fireside chat. Then, I can’t forget those who want to share their love and relationship stories in my magazine. It doesn’t have to be just about your partner. Let’s talk about your best friend, girl dads, and more. Let’s spotlight you being single or your amazing hotspot. And of course, veterans! If you’ve spent more than a week in boot camp and you’re not receiving a monthly check, you need to talk to my team! We process checks here without needing your medical records and we don’t care if you’ve been denied. We can make some things happen. Are you ready for your LaTonya MeChelle Experience?
Contact Info:
- Website: www.latonyamechelle.com & www.lovchology.com
- Instagram: www.instagram.com/lovechologymag/ & www.instagram.com/latonyamechelle/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/latonyamechelleexp & https://www.facebook.com/lovechologymag
- Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/latonya-mechelle-8b28471a2/
- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEsS7o9NBfVfBBzRsm2Q0Qg
