We recently connected with Ledra Lake and have shared our conversation below.
Ledra, we’re thrilled to have you on our platform and we think there is so much folks can learn from you and your story. Something that matters deeply to us is living a life and leading a career filled with purpose and so let’s start by chatting about how you found your purpose.
I found my purpose when the realization was revealed to me during the most transformative time in my life.
Let’s take a small detour – maybe you can share a bit about yourself before we dive back into some of the other questions we had for you?
I am Eloah and I am the owner of GodIs Healing With Eloah LLC. My story is one that is familiar and one that I am sure resonates with many women around the world… Abuse, Betrayal, & Trauma. It wasn’t until 2 years ago that I had a self realization that I’d been abused, betrayed, and I was living out the trauma of those experiences. I began to feel called by a Higher Power to start dealing with this trauma. Truthfully I had no idea how to do this and there was no one around me that I trusted enough to share what I was feeling at that time. I ended up having an altercation with my partner at the time and that triggered me to really self access my life, my choices, and my future. Being a mother of 3 daughters really put things into perspective and I knew that I did not want them to expereince any of what I was currently experiencing nor the things I’d experienced in the past.
I decided to take a leap of faith and left the environment that I was in. I did not have steady income nor my own vehicle at that time, We’d moved to a very small town in a new state, and we hardly knew anyone. However, there was a Higher Power at work behind the scenes and guiding my steps. The transportation I needed was provided, along with the resources and housing in less than a week. I knew it was because of my faith, trust, and willingness that these things had come together.
It was during this time of isolation and solitude that I was able to introspect on my life and where my previous choices had lead me. I allowed myself to be open and ask myself the hard questions as well as accept accountability for the roles I played in the situations I’d encountered. In other words, I released blame and took responsibility for my life.
What I learned was that I lacked self-love. Because of this, I allowed myself to connect with others who didn’t love themselves. I allowed these individuals to mistreat, lie, and cheat on me. I also allowed them to physically, mentally, and emotionally abuse me. I’d allowed myself to relinquish my power in order to feel what I thought was love. I realized that no matter who I was in a connection with, I was reliving the same toxic patterns and I needed to figure out how to end the cycle.
I began meditating and praying for answers and guidance. I’d reach out to Online Spiritual Guru’s for guidance and help, but there was never any provided. I started to feel helpless. I didn’t know how to change my mindset and heal the trauma of the past and present hurt that I’d expereinced, I didn’t understand why this Higher Power would want me to heal these things and not provide me with the help I needed to do so.
That’s when it was revealed to me that I was the help I needed. That through doing the inner work, that I could heal myself. It was then that I accepted the call to fulfill my purpose. To be the healer in my own life and assist other women who feel helpless and hopeless after experiencing abuse, betrayal, and trauma become their own hero’s and healers in their lives as well.
I started my business, GodIs Healing With Eloah LLC because 1st and foremost the foundation of what I offer is God. I know that without my faith and belief in God, the Higher Power, that has been guiding me on this journey that I would not be where I am today. My focus is assisting women who feel like all hope is lost, who feel like they’re not enough because someone made them believe that lie, to assist women who are afraid to start over, who struggle with confidence, who have never known or experienced true love within themselves. I assist women with reclaiming the power they never knew existed because someone made them feel powerless. I assist women with taking control of their narrative and writing their stories in a way that aligns with their greatest and highest good. I assist women who think its impossible because they think its too late in life. I was once each and every one of those women and I know that on the other side of pain, fear, struggle, and the lies is a happily ever beginning.
The services that I offer are one on one Intuitive Self-Love Sessions and Womb Healing/V-Steaming Sessions. These sessions are intended to provide women with clarity and guidance on how to release the past, focus on the present and create their future. The Womb Healing/V-Steaming Session help women release the trauma stored in their womb space and also helps women reconnect with their natural state of being, which is a flow state instead of a survival state.
I also make handcrafted Self Love Healing products such as Elixirs, Spiritual Baths, Herbal V-Steams, & Body Scrubs. Each product has an unique intention and are used to empower the women using them.
There is so much advice out there about all the different skills and qualities folks need to develop in order to succeed in today’s highly competitive environment and often it can feel overwhelming. So, if we had to break it down to just the three that matter most, which three skills or qualities would you focus on?
The three qualities that were most impactful on my journey was the building of my faith. The building of my faith replaced the fear that I’d always know. Fear kept me from moving forward and believing that I could experience something different. Faith helped to ask myself, why not experience something different. Trust, trusting that there was better for me. Trusting that I didn’t go through all the heartache and pain without a purpose. Trusting that each experience was meant to teach me something about myself and others. My beliefs… Whatever I believed to be true for me manifested in my reality. I’d believed the lies that I wasn’t enough, that I was unworthy, and that I deserved the things that I experienced. I wanted to adopt new beliefs about myself so that could experience a new reality that felt good and uplifted myself and others.
My advice to those who are early on their journey is to be patient with yourself and have compassion with yourself as you unlearn and relearn. Take the time to embrace the process of your journey. There is no need to rush. Remember that through experience comes wisdom and that wisdom is the result of lessons learned. Take the time to discover what is true for you. Don’t allow anyone to define your truth. When you decide your truth, you can operate from a space of authenticity.
& Always remember that self love is your super power. When you love yourself, you are empowered.
Who is your ideal client or what sort of characteristics would make someone an ideal client for you?
My ideal client is a woman who is ready to embrace their self love journey. A woman who is ready to release the victim mindset and let go the trauma that they once allowed to define them. A woman who is open and willing to do the work and understands that healing a journey not a race.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://godis-healing-weloah.square.site/
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/godis_the_upgrade888/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thywombhealer
- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCplLlVQewn1rArok10Ps5IA
