We were lucky to catch up with Monique Gruenthal recently and have shared our conversation below.
Monique, thank you so much for joining us today. Let’s jump right into something we’re really interested in hearing about from you – being the only one in the room. So many of us find ourselves as the only woman in the room, the only immigrant or the only artist in the room, etc. Can you talk to us about how you have learned to be effective and successful in situations where you are the only one in the room like you?
Overcoming obstacles and boundaries can be a challenging journey, especially when faced with the additional burden of not being liked by others. However, the key to success lies in the unwavering determination to never stop doing what you love to do. It is essential to remember that the opinions of others do not defined your worth or abilities. By focusing on your passion and dedicating yourself to your craft, you can rise above the negativity Overcoming obstacles and boundaries can be a challenging journey, especially when faced with the additional burden of not being liked by others. However, the key to success lies in my unwavering determination to never stop doing what I love to do. It is essential to remember that the opinions of others do not define your worth or abilities. By focusing on your passion and dedicating yourself to your craft, you can rise above the negativity and prove to yourself and others, that your love for what you do is unshakable. Embracing this mindset empowers me to conquer any obstacle that comes my way ultimately leading me to personal growth and fulfillment.
Appreciate the insights and wisdom. Before we dig deeper and ask you about the skills that matter and more, maybe you can tell our readers about yourself?
With over a decade of experience as a photographer, I pushed my creative skills to explore new avenues. This exploration lead me to designing my own Bespoke Gowns and even curating luxury weddings and events for clients and photographers from diverse backgrounds. I thrive on creating unique and captivating pieces. Whether big or small my passion shows through my work, and has led me to opening my own bespoke gown store, located in a small town called Newton, NC.
Where we not only showcase our designs, but we provide a platform for other talented female artist to showcase their work as well. This one stop shop is my brain child for all couples seeking convenient, creativity, and unparalleled service under one roof. Here you have the opportunity to design your dream wedding gown whether be a custom creation or stunning piece from our exquisite collection. Not only that, but you can also discover a treasure trove of unique jewelry pieces that perfectly complement your style.
This one stop shop is my brain child for all brides who understand the importance of a seamless wedding planning in addition, we also offer a selection of talented, florists, cake artists and photographers & videographers that we have worked with ensuring that every precious moment is captured with artistry and precision. And if you need assistance in bringing your wedding vision to life, our team of experts is ready to guide you through the design process, making your dream wedding a reality .
There is so much advice out there about all the different skills and qualities folks need to develop in order to succeed in today’s highly competitive environment and often it can feel overwhelming. So, if we had to break it down to just the three that matter most, which three skills or qualities would you focus on?
I think the three remarkable qualities that have shaped and defined who I am today. Firstly, my unwavering determination to never give up has been a driving force behind my accomplishments in the face of challenges and setbacks I persistently push forward, refusing to let obstacles hinder my progress. This resilience has allowed me to overcome, adversity and achieve my goals.
Secondly, I aspire to be remembered for doing great and unique things. I strive to leave a lasting impact through my work, whether it be designing gowns, curating luxury, weddings, or supporting fellow artist by constantly pushing the boundaries of creativity and innovation. I am able to create experiences and pieces that are truly memorable and distinctive.
Lastly, I find immense fulfillment in helping other artists, create and mold themselves, I believe in the power of collaboration, and supporting one another’s growth by providing a platform for fellow artists to showcase their talents, and offering guidance and mentorship, I contribute to the development and success of the artistic community as a whole.
The best advice I can give for anyone who is just starting their journey is that In the pursuit of your dreams, failure is often and inevitable part of the journey. However, it is crucial to remember that failure does not define us or our potential for success. Instead, it serves as a valuable teacher, offering lessons and insights that propel us forward. It is during these moments of setbacks that our determination and resilience are truly tested. It is in these moments that we must find the strength to rise again, dust ourselves off and to continue pursuing our dreams with unwavering passion, for it is through perseverance and unwavering belief in ourselves, that we can overcome any obstacle and ultimately achieve the success we desire.
If you knew you only had a decade of life left, how would you spend that decade?
I would say, my current challenge has been imposter syndrome, and if you’re an artist like me, you know exactly what imposter syndrome is. Dealing with imposter syndrome can be a challenging an overwhelming experience, but there are strategies that can help you overcome and navigate through imposter syndrome;
First recognize and acknowledge, your feelings, understanding that it is a common phenomenon, and that many successful individuals have faced, similar doubts, and insecurities. Second imposter syndrome, often stems from negative self talk and self-doubt challenge. These thoughts by questioning their validity and replacing them with positive affirmations, reminding yourself of all your accomplishments, skills and the hard work you have put in to reach where you are. Seek support and share your feelings by reaching out to trusted friends, family or mentors who can provide support and perspective. Focus on your strengths and achievements, making a list of them help to reflect the challenges you have had to overcome and the positive impact you have made. Embrace the continuous learning path that you face on a daily basis imposter syndrome often arises from the fear of being exposed as a fraud. Instead of fearing failure, embrace it as an opportunity for growth and learning. Remember that everyone makes mistakes and faces setbacks and it does not diminish your worth or abilities. Overcoming imposter syndrome is a journey that all artist have to take and it takes time and effort. Be patient with yourself and trust in your abilities.
Contact Info:
- Website: www.ShesOhhLaLaBoutique.com
- Instagram: Instagram.com/ShesOhhLaLaBoutique
- Facebook: She’s Ohh La La Boutique
- Other: Wedding planning; Instagram.com/OhhLaLa_Eventsandco
Image Credits
1. Kaci Moran Photography 2. Radiant Photography by SD 3. Kaci Moran Photography 4. Kaitlyn Blake Photography 5. Him&Her Photography 6. Kaitlyn Blake Photography 7. Kaci Moran Photography 8. Sonya Finch Photography
