Sofija of Los Angeles on Life, Lessons & Legacy

We’re looking forward to introducing you to Sofija. Check out our conversation below.

Hi Sofija, thank you so much for taking time out of your busy day to share your story, experiences and insights with our readers. Let’s jump right in with an interesting one: What makes you lose track of time—and find yourself again?
Songwriting on my own or just being in a session with a producer. I kind of get in the zone and 4 hours will feel like 1! Whenever I have writers block or am not in the mood it can be hard for me to start, but when I’m in it I’m really feeling connected with myself and my artistry.

Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
Hi! I am a contemporary R&B musician based in Los Angeles. I am 26 years old and from Portland, OR. I just released my first EP project called “Reveal”. Please listen!

Amazing, so let’s take a moment to go back in time. What part of you has served its purpose and must now be released?
As I’ve been on this journey as an artist, I think I’ve questioned myself at times in a way that I thought was a form of protection. Cushioning a blow if you will, doubting my skills or deservingness to achieve what I’d like with my music. I think for the most part, really, it was only stifling me and my bigger dreams. No room for that anymore!

When did you stop hiding your pain and start using it as power?
When I started writing music. It’s always been a really cathartic for me to write about what I am going through in my songs. Often times I’ll experience difficult things that I might not even discuss out loud, but I’ll use the song as my opportunity to say my piece. It has been a form of therapy for me for sure.

So a lot of these questions go deep, but if you are open to it, we’ve got a few more questions that we’d love to get your take on. What are the biggest lies your industry tells itself?
One in particular I’ve been thinking a lot about is the idea of aging out of the industry. I think this concept is somewhat gendered, as it typically refers to women, and how we are only valuable when we are younger. Personally, I think this is an intentionally harmful mentality that historically has been used to keep us controlled and small. As I’ve aged, I’ve made much better music, my voice sounds better, I’m hotter, fitter, smarter, and stronger, so I won’t let the inevitable reality of aging make me question my value and place in the music industry.

Thank you so much for all of your openness so far. Maybe we can close with a future oriented question. When do you feel most at peace?
When I am creating things that feel the most aligned with myself, going on a walk, or after meditation and breath work.

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