We’re looking forward to introducing you to Andie Wren. Check out our conversation below.
Hi Andie, thank you so much for joining us today. We’re thrilled to learn more about your journey, values and what you are currently working on. Let’s start with an ice breaker: Are you walking a path—or wandering?
Am I walking or wandering? It’s a strange combo of both. Sometimes it feels like I’m taking my time, loosely following my goals, letting life unfold at its own pace. I plan, I focus, but I also allow myself to drift and explore without a rigid map. Other times, when I’m wandering, I find myself on a path I didn’t even realize I was walking. One that reveals itself bit by bit, and suddenly I’m somewhere new, somewhere I needed to be but never planned for.
The moments where I’m intentional, give me clarity and direction. But the times I wander, that’s where the magic happens. That’s when I get lost in the joy of discovery. It’s in those wandering moments that I often find the most inspiration, the most growth, and a deeper understanding of myself.
Sometimes, I wonder if I was always meant to wander. To stumble upon lessons, people, and places I never would have sought out intentionally. Maybe wandering is my own way of walking a path, just not in the traditional sense. It’s more fluid, more intuitive, more aligned with the ebb and flow of life. So, I guess, for me, wandering is my version of walking a path.
Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
I’m a private and introverted young person, so when people come to me for a reading, they don’t really expect me to connect with them on so many levels. But as someone who is queer, has been through religious trauma, health challenges, and personal discovery, I can see where my clients are at and meet them there. The best way I can describe being a card reader and medium is like being a therapist, without all the schooling. I don’t claim to be as educated or informed as mental health professionals, but both jobs require you to hold space for others, and that’s what I do.
I’m still fine-tuning and exploring what I want my business to be. I see it as a continuously evolving process, and I’m open to showing up for others. Whatever I do, I want it to serve as a tool for healing. Whether that’s through tarot, energy work, or new modalities I’m excited to learn. Recently, I got into Henna and have been incorporating it into my services. I love how it connects with the body, and I hope to find more modalities to add to my toolbox so I can help more people in different ways.
My hope is to build a space where people feel seen and supported, no matter where they’re starting from. Just having someone hold space for you can make all the difference. Whether it’s through a reading, a healing session, or a new method I discover, my goal is always to help others find their spark and peace.
Amazing, so let’s take a moment to go back in time. Who were you before the world told you who you had to be?
Really from the moment I was born, the world was telling me who I had to be. Girlhood and Womanhood was something I was forced into as soon as people knew I was AFAB. Growing up, I didn’t really get the chance to discover who I was beyond what others expected or thought I should be. The world’s voice was always in my ear, telling me what I should do, what path I should walk, and how I should show up.
But whenever I even think about following those prescribed paths, I feel physically sick. It’s like my body is rejecting the idea of living someone else’s version of my life. I can imagine following what was laid out for me, but it just doesn’t sit right in my gut.
There are so many expectations placed on younger generations, things we’re supposed to do, be, and achieve. I’ve been working on saying no to those expectations, carving out my own space, and defining my own path. It’s a constant process of unlearning and stepping into my own truth.
I hope that when people see me and what I’m doing, they can feel a spark of empowerment, and know it’s okay to live life on your own terms. That’s a big part of what I want to do through TBug Tarot: help others find that courage and remind them they don’t have to follow someone else’s blueprint. It’s about reclaiming your story, your choices, and your happiness. Living authentically is a journey, and I want everyone to know they’re not alone in feeling lost with trying to find that.
If you could say one kind thing to your younger self, what would it be?
Only one?!? My younger self could really use a lot of kindness. I wish I knew how to be kinder to myself now, too. But if I had to pick one moment, I’d focus on my middle and high school self. I was navigating some very complicated things.
If I could give a pep talk to that version of me, I’d say:
“I want you to know that I’m becoming someone you never imagined you could be. Your energy is powerful and unique, and it’s okay to let it shine. I know it’s caused some friendships to fall away and made others try to quiet you, believe me, I see that. But every time you hold back, your big ideas and your true self stays hidden, and that’s a loss for everyone, especially you!
I get why you want to hide and feel safe, but I promise, hiding isn’t the only way. Over time, those parts of you, that you’re afraid to show, will become a part of who you are. You don’t have to be afraid of that power. It’s what will help you make a difference in your life and in the world.
You’re stronger than you think, and I love you. You’ve got this. Even if it feels like it’s taking longer or is harder than you expected, keep going. Every step forward is bringing you closer to the person you’re meant to be. I’m proud of you, always.”
That’s a reminder I still need today. I forget sometimes that I’ve grown beyond that version of me.
Alright, so if you are open to it, let’s explore some philosophical questions that touch on your values and worldview. What would your closest friends say really matters to you?
I love these questions because they give me a chance to connect with my friends. I would say that I value the people closest to me, but when I asked them what they think matters to me, their answers reflected that.
They appreciate that I’m honest and transparent. They rarely have to guess how I’m feeling or where I stand. Communication is really important to me. I want to know where I stand with others, and I try to offer them that same courtesy.
Having a solid foundation makes that easier. Building the trust it takes to have deep connections takes patience and effort, but it makes my life richer and is worth the growing pains. I’m grateful that I have people in my life that love me as I’m learning and growing.
Okay, we’ve made it essentially to the end. One last question before you go. What light inside you have you been dimming?
My self-doubt and fear have dimmed my confidence and belief in my own potential. I often hold back from pursuing my dreams because I don’t fully trust myself, thank you Mormonism!
Growing up in Mormonism made me hesitant to fully embrace myself and my dreams. I was taught that if I made a mistake, I could go to hell and never see my family again. That threat really kept me in line with the church and my family’s values. But no kid should ever equate a mistake with eternal damnation. This still impacts me today.
I’ve gotten better at being confident, but I still need practice. Regaining more of my confidence would allow me to pursue my dreams more freely and live more authentically, without the religious shame attached to it.
I want to show others, and myself, that you can still do things scared, that you can still move forward even when you don’t know what the end looks like. Navigating these things is part of my work, not just card readings. It’s about showing up and trusting the process, even when it’s uncertain.
Contact Info:
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