Dr Pamela Gurley shared their story and experiences with us recently and you can find our conversation below.
Good morning Pamela , it’s such a great way to kick off the day – I think our readers will love hearing your stories, experiences and about how you think about life and work. Let’s jump right in? When have you felt most loved—and did you believe you deserved it?
These are such a profound questions and honestly not difficult to answer. I have felt the most loved when I accepted to release myself from the pressures of the world and just be. I gave myself permission to exist in a space where my joy was protected, my authenticity was real, and I continued to invest in the person I am becoming.
As for whether I believed I deserved it, that was a journey all by itself. We tend to forget what it takes to look inward for love since outward seems easier. For a long time, I questioned my worthiness, thinking love had to be earned by achievement or perfection. Over time, I realized that love is something we all inherently deserve, just by being ourselves. Embracing that truth has been one of the most powerful and liberating experiences of my life. So, yes, I absolutely deserved it and still do.
Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
I’m Dr. Pamela Gurley, an author, speaker, literacy advocate, and founder of both Clark and Hill Enterprise and the Brown Girl and Brown Boy Literacy Foundation. My work is all about empowering others, especially young readers and writers, to embrace the power of literacy, self-expression, and authentic leadership.
What makes my journey unique is how I blend storytelling, education, and advocacy to challenge social norms and spark meaningful conversations. Through my foundation, I create opportunities for children to discover their own voices and be exposed to literacy that enhances personal development, not just literacy skills. My books, podcast, and speaking engagements all reflect my commitment to helping others grow, break barriers, and realize their full potential.
Right now, I am focused on expanding the reach of my literacy foundation, launching new book projects, and developing programs that inspire both kids and adults to lead with confidence and purpose. My story is rooted in authenticity and a genuine desire to create lasting impact, and I am excited to keep building communities where every story is valued and every voice is heard.
Okay, so here’s a deep one: What did you believe about yourself as a child that you no longer believe?
To fit in was a false belief about myself. I believed I needed to downplay the things that made me different, even within my own community. As a little Black girl, my interests and by how proper I spoke sometimes led others to say I was not “Black enough.” Over time, I learned that my identity is not defined by stereotypes or outside opinions. Embracing everything from my natural curls to my passions has allowed me to stand confidently in who I am and celebrate the fullness of my own story.
If you could say one kind thing to your younger self, what would it be?
If I could say one kind thing to my younger self, it would be this: You are enough, exactly as you are. Your uniqueness is your strength, and you never have to change who you are to make others comfortable. Embrace your curls, your dreams, your voice, and everything that makes you different, because those are the things that will one day inspire and empower others. Your legacy will be built on it. Trust yourself and know that you are worthy of love, success, and happiness just by being you.
Next, maybe we can discuss some of your foundational philosophies and views? Is the public version of you the real you?
Absolutely!! The public version of me is the real me. What you see is truly who I am: authentic, passionate, and committed to my purpose. I believe in showing up as my full self, whether I am on speaking on stage, podcasting, or just living my everyday life. My journey has taught me the importance of embracing my story, my voice, and my values unapologetically. I share my successes, my challenges, and even the messy moments because I want people to see that being real is not only enough, it is powerful. My mission is rooted in authenticity, and I hope that by being transparent, I inspire others to do the same. No hiding over here!
Okay, so let’s keep going with one more question that means a lot to us: What is the story you hope people tell about you when you’re gone?
I hope people say that I was someone who used my voice and my work to uplift others and open doors that might have otherwise stayed closed. I want my story to be one of courage, authenticity, and impact. I hope people remember me as a woman who was unapologetically herself and inspired others to do the same. I want my legacy to reflect the importance of living and experiencing life and not just being alive. Most of all, I hope people say I left the world a little brighter, more inclusive, and more inspired than I found it.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://www.iamdrpgurley.com
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamdrpgurley
- Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pgurley
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/iamdrpgurley
- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/iamdrpgurley
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