Almost everything that’s changed the world in a positive way has been an unreasonable idea. It’s unreasonable, until it’s commons sense. That’s how change happens and so in order to make a difference in the world, it’s incredibly important to be able to ignore the naysayers. Some of the best and brightest from our community share their stories and advice below.
Denise Frazier
It used to bother me when people didn’t believe in me. I would get in my feelings and let it affect my entire day. It took a painful situation with someone close to me to open my eyes and make me realize that I needed to grow closer to God. Read More>>
Brittni Alexandra
Overcoming ‘haters’ so to say was not something I was born with. When I was younger I would very much worry and think of others opinions. However making the choice to open my own business completely shifted my perspective. All your known factors and comfort are removed you have to create a new version of your self, the one you always needed/ wanted to be. Read More>>
Buffy Werle
I have always had an intention that points me in the direction I was wanting to go. Over the years there’s been a lot of haters and naysayers. I am so grateful I never let them win. Even if their words managed to make it in and created a loop in my head, even if I was scared, I did it anyways. Read More>>
Anthony JP ( A.K.A) Angel Of GRACE Trujillo
I use it as fuel. Instead of letting negativity slow me down, I turn it into motivation. I pray about it, release it, and keep moving forward. At the end of the day, I’m not out here pretending to be someone I’m not—I’m just staying true to myself. I stay solid, stay focused, and keep it 100. Read More>>
Amanda Vankirk
In photography — and honestly in any creative field — the moment you develop a distinct style, you’re going to divide opinions. If your work doesn’t make someone feel something, it’s probably forgettable. My brand isn’t built on playing it safe. It’s built on mood, edge, emotion, and a point of view. And not everyone is going to understand that. Read More>>
Amanda Ohlau
Becoming a mother completely changed how I respond to doubt. When your life begins with loss—when you grow up without the safety net most people never have to think about; you learn early that survival requires resilience. As an orphan, I learned how to keep going long before I learned how to be confident. Read More>>
Angelo Gingerelli
I’ve found the overwhelming majority of ‘haters’ to be people that are not doing anything themselves. It’s easy to sit on the sidelines or in the crowd and critique the people on the stage, field, etc. Read More>>
Katie Steffke
When creating art, I have always believed in the idea that viewers should take what resonates with them and leave the rest. I don’t need them to necessarily feel what I’m feeling which in a way is really freeing. My work is ultimately something I create for myself, and I do not feel a need for universal approval in order to feel confident in it. Read More>>
